How to Feel Sexy in Lingerie — No Matter Your Size

Let’s get something straight: sexy isn’t a size. It never has been.
But in a world that constantly tells us otherwise, slipping into lingerie can feel like an act of rebellion.

Whether you’re a size 8 or 28, you deserve to feel confident, desirable, and powerful in your own skin. And lingerie? It can be the tool—not the test—to get there.

Stop Waiting for the “After”
Most of us have a piece we’ve bought for “someday.”
Someday when we’ve toned up, lost weight, or feel more confident.
Here’s your permission slip: wear it now.
There’s nothing empowering about punishing your body with conditions.
Confidence doesn’t come after perfection. It comes from practice.

Choose Lingerie That Works With—Not Against—Your Body
Good lingerie doesn’t squeeze, shame, or hide. It supports, celebrates, and flatters.
Look for pieces that:

• Feature stretch lace, mesh, or wide bands

• Offer structure in the right places (hello, underbust support!)

• Move with your body, not against it

And remember: size up if needed. Comfort is sexy.

Let Go of the “Lingerie is Only for Someone Else” Narrative
You don’t need a partner, occasion, or excuse.
Wear lingerie for a solo dance party. For working from home. For grocery day.
Sensuality is a state of mind. And when you wear something that lights you up?
That’s a quiet rebellion against the idea that pleasure is something we must earn.

Reframe the Mirror Moment
We’ve been taught to pick apart our reflection.
But what if that moment in front of the mirror wasn’t inspection—it was connection?
Next time you slip into lingerie, look at yourself like someone you love.
Admire. Appreciate. Applaud.

Your body is not a project.
It’s not a problem to solve.
It’s a living, feeling, beautiful thing worthy of softness, lace, and love.

So, go ahead—wear the damn lingerie.
Jen xx